Children,
like the Holy Bible said are “Gifts from God”, but the present situation in
Nigeria and the World over doesn’t depict this at all.
The
way children are being born by single mothers, whose men refused to take
responsibility for is quite alarming. If these men very well know they are not
ready for this kind of responsibility, why not quit impregnating ladies who
will end up bringing forth a bastard child to the World and causing heartaches
in the process.
I
am writing this because of my encounter with numerous fatherless kids roaming
the streets of Nigeria, but this particular one caught my attention.
Yesterday,
while on my way home from work. A street kid met me for arms and this is the
conversation that ensued.
Street
Kid: Abeg Sir gee me money make I take chop. My mama go market and she no keep
anything for house. I dey work for car wash, but no money.
Me:
Why you go dey work at this age?
Street
Kid: Nooo! I still dey go school o.
Me:
So you dey go school, that’s good. But where ur papa?
Street
kid: I no get papa.
This
single answer signaled the end of our conversation. How terrible???
Most
definitely his mum is a single mother, who was impregnated by one arrant guy
who can’t hold his zippers.
Now
see what single parents give rise to. Tomorrow the boy will impregnate a lady
and abscond because he has been made to believe that a man should not stand by
his responsibility. How can you blame him either, he knows no better. What a
shame!
If
only adults will learn to act responsibly and stop this arrant frolicking about
with sex, half of the Worlds problems will be solved. When the family structure is shaky then what hope for the kids?


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