A Married Man Should Not Be Friends with a Single Woman.

Check out this article i saw on the internet. Makes alot of sense, don't it? Enjoy your read!

Most married men tend to develop friendships in the work place with single women which can lead to an affair. All the married women out there must agree with the fact their husbands spends the majority of their time at work. Some married women are clueless as to where and what their husbands are doing at work.

Married women have no control over what their husbands do at work. We have to trust our husbands and hope for the best right? The truth is men are men. I know that is no excuse but this is our reality. If there are attractive women in the work place and he is spending a lot of time at work with these women, there is a strong possibility they will become intimate.

In my previous company, it was sad to see a few of the married men in the office becoming too friendly with the single ladies in the office. Some of them were sleeping with each other because of the friendships they developed while working long hours in the office together. One of the Directors had an affair with one of his Sales Representative. I remember when his wife came to visit him with their son and the woman he was having an affair with was also in the same room. His wife and the woman already knew each other through company holiday parties. That was a very uncomfortable situation. When I witnessed the behavior that was taking place, I could not help to wonder, if my husband was behaving the same way in his company.

I know back in the 1950’s and 1960’s it was very common for the boss to sleep with his secretary while the wife was oblivious to her husband’s indiscretion. Sorry to say this is still happening now. There is nothing the wives can do to stop it.

It would be so great if only these single women who are working with these married put there foot down and decline the offer to go out to lunch when asked by a married man. When he starts to make advances towards the woman, she has to push him away and say to him, “You are a married man and you should respect the vows you made to your wife.” When I was a single woman working in advertisement as an Account Executive, married men made advances towards me in the work place, but I never entertained the thought to get involved. I remember telling one of them to “respect his wife and children and do right by them.” If women would say and mean those words, men would not have the opportunity to cheat.

The bottom line is married men have no business trying to become friends or make new friends with single women. It can lead to breaking up a stable home. Your wife should be your friend not another woman. I understand some women and men may think they can be friends without any intimacy. However, they are forgetting when you share too much with the opposite sex you are becoming intimate with them. The worst thing a married man can ever do is talk about his marriage to another woman who he thinks is only a friend. The moral thing to do is to avoid developing a friendship with married men. It is not worth the heartache.